monique sandhu fresno,ca,11-29-09

by katherine cruz
(frsno,ca,93728)

my daughter had left that night of 11-29-09 with a friend and that was the last i seen her, i was looking for her all night couldn't find her didn't go to work, as i was watching the news that night i had seen the accident on the news but didnt pay no mind because i was leaving a message on her phone please tell me monique if your ok so next morning i got up went to the police station to see if they can use gps to find her but they couldnt do it so as i was driving home i got out of the car and i get a phone call from the corners office to go down there as i got there i got on my knees and prayed and asked the lord to please not let it be her,as they asked me to go in this room and they were gonna show me a picture when i had accidently seen it, and i saw it clearly and it was my daughter oh how i cried, why god why her i looked every where for her, i was so torn apart never will i forget that day, its so hard to deal with this, and to realize that her friend servived through this and my daughter didnt, her parents didnt even get up looking for her until the next morning i had to call her and tell her that her daughter was in the hospital, until this day i dont even speak to her nor have i spoken with any of the family my heart goes out to them even though the driver was so intoxicated and had meth in his system, also had his liscense tooken away and was still driving,yes my daughter had a choice to get in the car but not a choice to die, all i no is that i miss her so much things are not the same for me anymore deppressed, i go to work come home use to stay in my room everyday, but i have to realize that this is not what she would want for me it has not even been a year yet, when that day comes i no that it will be hard for me, i can't even go to where the accident happen,@ times i wish i could just go and leave sum flowers there for her but shes not there shes up in heaven with the good LORD GOD BLESS her, she has two other sisters and cousins that live with us,she was my youngest out of my other daughters, i love her and miss her so much, why her she was so good in school

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Jul 18, 2014
miss You Baby Girl NEW
by: Destiny Lujan

I miss you baby girl.I can't seem to move on, it's hard knowing your gone. I love you mama's and I always think of you.

Jul 18, 2014
miss You Baby Girl NEW
by: Destiny Lujan

I miss you baby girl.I can't seem to move on, it's hard knowing your gone. I love you mama's and I always think of you.

Aug 28, 2012
Te Amo Baby Girl NEW
by: Destiny, Paco,& Lalo

We Love & Miss Yuh So Much. Yuhr Always On Mah Mind And We Wish This Didnt Happen To Yuh Our Beautiful Angel..

LOve Yuh Always..

Aug 28, 2012
Te Amo Baby Girl NEW
by: Destiny, Paco,& Lalo

We Love & Miss Yuh So Much. Yuhr Always On Mah Mind And We Wish This Didnt Happen To Yuh Our Beautiful Angel..

LOve Yuh Always..

Apr 16, 2011
you are safe now
by: dawn&wayne

monique we are so sorry of what happened to you but god always has his reasons for everything.we just got to see how you had turned into a beautiful girl agrown up girl from which we last saw you.well for what its worth we love you the same as our grandaughter and we are very glad we got to see you.i know as my sister was taken away from us in 2009.but we have to remember they are with god and the beautifull angels and they are protected everyday and cannot be hurt anymore.god has a plan for the bad ones that choose to do bad things.you are up with my family and maybe you can look down at us to know how much we love and miss you.if your mom would let us into heart we are here always to help her anyway we can.we will always love her and be connected to her cause of your sister victoria. so you sleep my child and enjoy all the beautifull dreams you can have and the place where i know is beautifull too. love you and glad we got to be with you for the time we did. wayne &dawn barile.

Feb 14, 2011
Mommy missing u
by: Mom

Happy valentines day baby I miss u so much my heart aches for u, why u baby why I ask god all the time I no I have to let u rest, and im sorry I just miss u, cant wait to c u again I love u my precious angel

Dec 22, 2010
iloveyou monique we miss you so much
by: trisha

dang man still cqnt beliv this no one can my heart goes out to moniques mom and sisters im sorry we all lovd monique on days that i miss her i just sit there and let my tears fallv down my face i just sayy to myself iloveyou baby girl dont ever forget that .................. monique i juswt want you to no iloveyou and we all miss you very much and we can wait till the day we meet agian..... we love you baby girll.....

Dec 19, 2010
we miss u
by: the guerrero family

wow i cant believe that u are gone u were such a happy girl u didnt deserve this but god has a plan for every one god sometimes i just think this is all a bad dream of something i cant get throgh mind that u are really gone u were like a lil sister to me i remeber when u and vanessa used to come over every day julie took it so hard when u left she stil has trouble tryin to get over u beenin gone are harts go out to ur moms and sisters ur in a way better place now u can sleep in peace we all love and miss u monique


love the guerrero family

Dec 18, 2010
rip monique sandhu
by: hector

i miss you monique .i no that god took you away butits still hard to not see you here with us ..everyone misses and loves you and every wall i see spray painted says RIP MONIQUE SANDHU and its true theres nothin bad with that cuz they lost someone special to them!Rip Monique Sandhu!!!we miss n love u..no one cant wait to c your beutiful face in heaven!!!WE ALL LOVE YOU MONIQUE!!!!!!!

Nov 07, 2010
almost a year!
by: Victoria Barile (monique's sister)

well it's almost a year and well what can you say to this?... i know she will never be able to come back... i know what happened that night happened for a reason.... so many questions but no answers!!! i was with my mom that night looking for her... she was saying this girl man where is she?? why she go? i told her that she was ok and not to worry shell be home tomarrow mom... the next day i was getting readdy for school and i usually always watch the news.. but i didnt i came home early because i had a dentist appointment.... when i got home 15 min later my mother was jumping around in the front yard crying and paniking... my aunt grandma and mother left they wouldnt tell me where and i took a walk after they left.. i knew in my heart they found my little sister but i knew she was gone... they came back and the look on their face was something words couldnt discribe... couple of weeks and its going to be a year....

Oct 30, 2010
why do innocent people have to die
by: malia

its sad that some people out there dnt know how much it hurts for the persons family nd frends some people say dat their drink driving for fun mayb it is for them and they think its a joke we only have one life and once ur taking a persons life away u liv their family going throuth a hard time especialy if they didnt have enouth time to spent together as a family why do innocent people have to die 4 wt drunk drivers think its fun and funny think again b4 u make a move drunk drivers :(

Oct 14, 2010
i love yew monique<3 Miss yah lotz:'(
by: Angelica Barragan

I cant believe da bby gurl iz gone:'(! when i found out what had happened, MY HEART CRUSHED into tiny pieces!!! i just couldn't believe it!! I had seen her a couple days before the accident. She was smiling (like always)....that was the last time i got to hug and talk to her...i knew her since fifth grade...yeah its not that long but it was long enough for me to consider her as one of my BEST FRIENDS! i miss her so so so much!! i still cant believe that its almost a year that she has been gone. Still to this day i cry because i realize that she wont ever b here with us. She was such a beautiful & awesome person...She would always make people feel better when they would have a bad day & she would defend her friends. Imiss her so much!! i cant even write anymore...R.I.P Monique Adela Sandhu...Wont ever forget you baby girl...See you soon...

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