Why Me? Why Do I have To Pay?Daddy I Love You!!!

by Grace
(California)

Well.....i dont know where to start. I havent talked about this in a while. My dad and I were so close. We did everything together and spent loads of times with each other. Sometimes i would even turn down to hang out with my friends because me and my dad had already had plans. lol. He taught me how to ride a bike, he taught me how to play basketball. he took me too all my dance classes, and everyone was always telling me how great he was. and i would just smile and say "I know right!!". because i did.......we got in a fight about where i was gonna go to college, i had my mind set on ucsb, but he had always seen me going to csu. i was so pissed that day i said things i didnt mean. i remember the look he gave me before he left....before he would never come back.....it was more than just anger, it was far more than that. it was pain, my dad and i never fought....he left me. he was killed that night. by a drunk driver, who ran a red light, headon into my dads car. he killed on impact. i cryed for months...not days not weeks...months. the day god takes him from me is the day we never got to tell each other how much we loved each other. my mom had left us when i was 2 and i didnt have any siblings, so i was alone. I never got to tell him how much he meaned to me...how much i loved him...how much i appreciated everything he did for me......And how much i loved being his little girl.


I love you daddy

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Nov 25, 2009
hey sweetie I am so sorry
by: Regina

Hi sweetie I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. Your story reminded me about how my older sister and I had a argument on the phone. I hung up on her never to get to talk to her again. My sister wasn't killed by a drunk driver but the hospital she was in gave her a drug overdose. I never got to say I Love you bye or anything. It bothered me so bad. But I know my sister knew I loved her and that she was special to me!! I am a christian and so was she so I just talked to God and asked him to give my sister a message for me. I told him to tell her that I was sorry for our argument and that I Love her. I really believe he told her that for me. She has came to me in a couple of dreams also. God will see you through just call upon him.

May 21, 2009
i understand what ur dealin with
by: miguel enriquez

i read your story andi understand what ur going through. my girlfriend died in a drunk driving accident and i was there and i watched her die in front of me. losing the one you love to something like that is horrible. i still curse the driver that caused the accident. but know this ur dad is ookin down from heaven keeping you safe.

miguel

Jan 29, 2009
Im so sorry!!!
by: Krista Graves

Hey gurl
well umm.... i just wanted to say that im sorry about your dad and i know how it feels i to also lost my daddy so i am going to pray for you k and no matter what you can say you love your daddy even if hes not there so yea lol. but i got to go so ttyl.


Your Friend,

Krista Graves
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Jan 29, 2009
Im so sorry!!!
by: Krista Graves

Hey gurl
well umm.... i just wanted to say that im sorry about your dad and i know how it feels i to also lost my daddy so i am going to pray for you k and no matter what you can say you love your daddy even if hes not there so yea lol. but i got to go so ttyl.


Your Friend,

Krista Graves
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Oct 30, 2008
i know its hard girl
by: Dez'Arae

I LOST MY DAD TO A TEEN DRUNK DRIVER AND I GO TO THE SAME SCHOOL AS HE DOES. ITS NOT EASY GIRL ALL YOU CAN DO IS PRAY... I WISH I COULD TALK TO YOU IN PERSON SO WE COULD HELP EACH OTHER JUST HANG IN THERE :-(

Oct 28, 2008
Why Me?Why Do I have to pay?Daddy I Love You!!!
by: Teon Sander

JUST PRAY!!!IT WORK

Oct 23, 2008
Girl im so sorry
by: Jennifer

i no how much your hurting. but no matter what if your dad is alive or in heaven you can still tell him that you love him. i wish i knew you so i could tell you that its going to be alright. but no matter what youre not alone

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